No Confidentiality Promised For Birthmothers
We the undersigned, do declare that we are Birthmothers who placed a child for adoption and that we were NEVER promised confidentiality by ANYONE involved in the adoption process nor did we ever want... continue reading »
"I left a note for my child for contact, for medical information. They never gave it to her!"
"mothers have rights and im still searching for my 21 year old son in illinois who was put up for adoption against my will who was there for us and who will be there for the next mother? hopefully you will but will you take the step in the right direction?"
"Never asked for confidentiality"
"I support this petition"
"I support this petition"
"My Child is adopted and i want him to know who I am when he finds out"
"I support this petition"
"I support this petition"
"I am a BM from 1968. My daughter was relinquished through Catholic Charities in Maryland. There was NO promise of continued confidentiality, only a promise that I would FORGET -- which never happened. The emptiness grew out of control. The loss was/is dev"
"I support this petition"
"I support this petition"
"I support this petition"
"i gave up my child 20 years ago now i want to find her for my other kids"
"I searched for and found my son and it has been a healing experience for all involved,including his parents."
"I support this petition"
"Open the records - let us find our children. Let our children find us."
"I support this petition"
"Adults should never be restricted from knowing who their adult natural family members are. In fact it should be made easy for them to contact each other when need be for medical or other reasons prior to adulthood."
"I would really like to find my daughter"
"It never entered my mind. The maternity home changed my name and said it was to protect the "others", since it wasn't what I wanted. Later I found out we were all protecting the "other" girl."
"i was only 19 when i gave my son up for adoption. at the most stressful and emotional time of my life "adults" talked me into what was best for my son. i truely believe he had a beter chance at a life a could not afford to give him, just being out of high"
"lets do it"
"Birthmothers are being used by legislators and policy-makers just as we were used years ago. They are the "confidentialty culprits," but it's easier to use a group of women who had no say so whatsoever in adoption law or practice, or the fate of our child"
"Equal rights to us all!"
"On the contrary, I was led to believe that my child would likely be given information to FIND ME when she became an adult. Riiiiiight."